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Thank you to Jim Barnes

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I’ve had my phone number now for several years. So when I started to receive calls from several health insurance companies, a car dealership and a job service asking for Mr. Barnes, I was rather confused. Turns out the man used my number on several online forms. Perhaps, he’s dyslexic and switches numbers around and his number is close to mine. Maybe he’s out to get me. Or, many, many moons ago my phone number was his and he still uses it because he doesn’t want anyone to know his new number. Any way you slice it, these kind of calls were annoying to put it mildly.

Today I graduate from Full Sail’s Graduate Certificate program in EMDT and I couldn’t be more proud. To celebrate, I have changed my phone number. I will be very selective who I share that number with this time around. No mentioning online or handing out business cards. If folks want to find me, they can find me right here and use my email. I’m online all the time anyways.

Good bye Mr. Barnes. I hope one day you find that health insurance you seem to seek. You have taught me assertiveness as I told off callers. You taught me patience as calls sporadically came in whenever you decided to have fun filling out forms online. You taught me tolerance for irritations and interruptions. You might have even give me an outlet to let off steam. I have learned my lessons. Your work is done here.

 

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The Anti-Marketing Campaign for Fairy School

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Friday starts a new session of the Fairy Online School. We always have fun and I love sharing what I’ve learned with folks so they have lots of tools and feel empowered. This year I’ve learned so much about marketing and there seems to be lots of formulas zooming around, that to me, have actually gotten me turned off from most marketing I receive. I tried some of that and I didn’t enjoy it, and it didn’t work for my tribe. All that type of marketing actually exhausted me, taking away from my creativity. So instead, I will do the Ronni method. (Okay, to be fair, I did make that funky trailer, but that was fun to make.) Classes start Friday and if you are interested and you really feel you can benefit right now with what is being offered, do sign up. I’d love to work with and assist you, and I know you will have fun. There’s a two payment option, and Paypal Bill Me Later for most classes, and many are very affordable under $60.00.

And for the many on small budgets, I offer my new TREAT SHOP, where you can pick up a tool or two for under $20.00 that can really help while still supporting the writer/artist to be able to eat..hey, that’s me! I love win-win situations.

I could bug you via email over and over until the day school starts, but I had one organization do that to me and it felt like Mom nagging me to do the dishes. Hmmm…not so much.

Look forward to working with the new students and fairy blessings to you,

Ronni

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Sketchbook Saturday Misc.

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from my FAIRY TOOLS class

from my activity book

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New Age Speak Deciphered

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All fields and communities have their own languages to communicate to each other. In the classes I’m taking in Grad School I am learning about new technologies. In the technology world, at least in school, everything seems to be abbreviated. There’s PLEs and ETCs and BPs. I’m pretty confused at this point, but I would guess in about a month, I’ll be an old pro at this language.

This experience brought me to my thoughts of the metaphysical community. There’s a language there all it’s own. There’s lots of talk of energy and vibes and such. I like things simplified and easy to understand, after all, my job as a translator with animals and Spirit is taking the complex thoughts they send over and translating it into down-to-earth english. So, here’s some new age concepts defined.

New Age Speak:

  • BAD ENERGY. If someone has BAD ENERGY it usually means someone is a jerk, or really negative all the time and feels like a Debbie Downer, or they can feel scary and dark like a walking horror movie.
  • 2012. 2012 is the end of the world according to the Mayan calendar. Many metaphysical folk think that this will be a time where some will move into a light dimension and others will stay here. Sounds like other religions’ beliefs. I see it as gradual change that is already happening. Obviously, we are seeing lots of folks waking up and becoming more aware of themselves and their surroundings, because look at all the people who are hanging on to dear life of the 1950s in fear in resistance to change. And women, don’t you just want to go back to the 1950s and take away all your rights and your ability to think or speak?
  • Your thoughts become things. There is truth in this statement but it’s also a great way to beat yourself up even more! Something bad happens? It’s all your fault! You created it! Bad you! You thought wrong. My idea about this is, you know how you think about red cars and all of a sudden, there’s red cars everywhere? There’s ads on tv, someone hands you a magazine with a red car on it? You basically focus on that car and filter out the world like a giant computer and pull to you those images or even only notice those things. It’s like a giant Google search.
  • Lightworkers. Another word for healers born on planet earth to try and clean up the mess we’ve made of it.
  • Downloads. This is usually a dump of information into your brain and all of a sudden, you are super-wise. Unfortunately, it doesn’t always last and you can go back to being confused and bumping into furniture hours later. But, if it’s good information you can use and you integrate it, you can have some really good change in thinking and your perceptions of your problems, and even have solutions you didn’t think of.

I’m sure you have your own definitions and translations. Want to share?

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New Fairy Class Starts Soon!

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Thank you for taking the New Class Poll! We have a winner! (For those of you sighing because you wanted an Advanced Animal Communication class, don’t worry. We’ve got a monthly teleclass scheduled in November on that subject!)

New Fairy Class! Let me take you on an adventure.

I invite you to enter deeper into the fairy world. Maybe you took the Fairy Beginner Fairy Healing class, or dipped your feet into Fairies 101 for a look, or maybe you just love fairies and they’ve been sparkling in and out of your life. The Fairy Tools class (part of the Fall Session) we’ll dive into new healing tools you can use and apply in daily, practical life, while having fun exploring different parts of the Fairy Realm.

We visit the Cacti People for targeted help, dive down deep with the Water Spirits, enter Indian Gardens to clear out holes, go to the fields of manifesting magic, head to the Pond of Mirrors, and visit the Flower Garden to heal with color. Sign up in the next two minutes (just kidding), but seriously, if you sign up this week, each student receives a FREE guided fairy meditation to play with later! Go here.

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I’m going to teach you how to make $5,000 in a day

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(SATIRE ALERT)

You might be looking at your bills and your business and thinking “I should be making a lot more money because the folks all over the internet tell me I should.” And that’s right!

I need a website that screams at people with the same format as everyone else because that’s what works!

And since I want to make a ton of money off of you so I can sit in luxury and have a flat screen tv and a big boat, I will teach you in one extremely over-priced workshop or teleseminar the secret that you want to make a ton of money. Only I have the answer and you are so curious, you can’t take it! You need to know what that is so you will pay anything!

Of course, there will be lots of talk and I may even be a bit vague. I will give you tools that work for me, but may not work for you. There will be lots of foreplay in my marketing video leading up to now a lot of real action in the end.

I will teach you how to lose that annoying one-to-one interaction and connection with people. Isn’t it more fun charging a ton while you sit and watch videos all day eating bon-bons? I mean, who has time for that anyway?

But wait, there’s more. You might want to buy my other products that promise a bunch but don’t entirely deliver. I sell you the hope and dream, not real material. I just give you that excitement buzz with a catchy title.

It’s all about the dollar, no need for the other things getting in your way. Don’t you want to be a success and win approval? Show how worthy you really are especially in a bad economy? You will show how great you are at manifesting and embodying THE SECRET and show how “special” you are!

Uggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

What if, instead, you are internally guided to what is just right for you? Each day and each baby step along the way, you are not left alone. You’ll have what you need when you need it. Your business is as individual as you are and has specific needs and a plan that work for you. You might be building a very strong business slowly with a solid foundation underneath. It’s a business based on your values and what really floats YOUR boat so it’s a win-win situation between you and the client/customer.

You have the answers inside of you and will be directed to the right outside resources you need. I’ve seen it. I’ve felt it. I’m experiencing it right now.

But hey, what do I know? I’m not a marketing guru. 🙂

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Lots of crankiness in the world–we need this

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I am noticing a lot of crankiness and hot tempers in the world lately. It’s probably the unusual heat plaguing areas not used to it (we’re used to it) that is upsetting everyone’s Pitta. Last week I related to it, as I was hormonally challenged, so I do understand. But we do need more light to fill up that darkness. It’s too easy to get lost in it and then we think we are the dark parts! So, I bring you this:

Aren’t they pretty? Nothing cheers my soul like finding a pretty flower in my yard I didn’t know was there!

And this! Finding a face on the rock elder beneath my feet.

A stray butterfly flying by my head brings me such joy; such delicate beauty.

You see, lots of yuck can happen in your world. Believe me I KNOW. But there is a small little part in our heart that survives, and it notices the beauty and the wonder in the world. It loves the everyday magic in the passing butterfly. It’s like a good seed planted there, and everyday we are handed bad seeds to grow–through the media, other people, life.  I say,

NURTURE THE HELL OUT OF THOSE GOOD SEEDS!

Reminds me that one acorn can grow an oak tree. Just one!

(You will have to excuse me. I have just finished watching a marathon watching of MY NEIGHBOR TOTORO and I’m feeling quite nice.)

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Do you have an Insect Attachment?

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Yesterday, while watching a movie and cuddling my basset, I felt a huge drop of energy, fear and a wave of insecurity. These feelings didn’t match the comfy feel of my dog girl, or the interesting movie I was watching. I wasn’t recently slimed or had any negative interactions with anyone that I was aware of. I noted it and went to bed to do a meditation to take care of it.

Calling in my helpers, and of course the Fairies of the house, I scanned my body. And there it was…an attachment on my shoulder! You know the expression, “feeling like someone is always over your shoulder?” There isn’t a saying like that? Well, there should be. That is definitely how I felt!

The attachment clairvoyantly looked like a giant spider looking quite comfortable clutching to my shoulder.

The biggest symptom I could make out of knowing the attachment was there was the recurring, OCD-like thoughts in my head I couldn’t get rid of. I felt like someone else’s energy was on top of mine.

I’ve been watching this fun anime series, HOLIC, which is quite spiritual in nature. The show is very entertaining, but what I really like about it is it addresses the dynamics of psychic energy. The main character even sees energy, like I do, which is comforting. In the episode I was watching about two twin girls, the one twin was a bit of a failure and a klutz. Deeper into the episode we see that the other twin basically fed into her sister’s mind treadmill with remarks like “Oh no, you don’t want to trip. You know how you mess up….” It was fascinating to see as each time she remarked, there were waves going out to her plagued sister that the cartoon audience could see. That little attachment on my shoulder felt just like that.

Once I cleared the little insect parasite off my shoulder (I asked it to leave!) and brought in all the good fairy energy — my matching energy — I slept like a baby and had wonderful, funny dreams. And this morning, I could see and think clearly. I was even able to write this lesson!

Attachments are a different form of SLIMING. They hang on and influence. Sometimes they are other folk’s energy from far away or nearby, or something we picked up from others, and other times spirits are hanging on. But the key is to recognize them and send them far away, just like you would relocate the spider or fly out of the house.

Thanks to Marla mentioning, I did remove one word from this post. Normally, I don’t change what I write, but she did make a very good point as I wasn’t clear in my writing. I do like spiders, I don’t like nasty attachments that are stuck to me.

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I talk more about this in my new EMPATH SKILLS class. Sign-ups start this week for next month’s class. Perfect addition to my book!

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Celebrate the Woo Hoo’s

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Most sensitive people have a few characteristics that are the same:

  1. We like to please.
  2. We can be very hard on ourselves.
  3. We are hard-working and considerate, and very diligent.

I noticed these traits in myself and many of my students and clients.

On top of being a sensitive, I am also a Capricorn who likes to climb mountains; usually impossible ones. Climbing the impossible ones are a habit from childhood–very high expectations I continually tried to reach. I often forget my sensitive nature and plow right over it which can cause lots of problems which make climbing mountains difficult & failure inevitable.

Today, I tuned into guidance on my many endeavors and my climbing the impossible, and heard clearly to Celebrate What I’m Doing Right. I call this Celebrate my Woo Hoo’s!

Being very creative, like most folks who visit THE DESIGNING FAIRY, I whipped out my art journal. I began to keep track of my successes, listing them, and any happy compliments coming my way, and even little milestones like, “Wow, I didn’t kill the Weed Guy this week even though I really wanted to.” I judged my success on how I felt, and who I touched or helped–what mattered to me. I hope to keep this a habit — my weekly check-ins– to form a new habit of thinking to replace the years of contradictory non-woo hoo thinking.

What can you celebrate?

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Have you been slimed?

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Slime attacks. As a sensitive person, I can be negatively influenced from the television I watch, the stuff I read, my encounters with other people, and even telepathically from people far away. Often, I pick up negative poo coming at me by noticing my mood. For three days I felt foreign energy invading my space and watched my mood gradually decline. Before that I felt hopeful, positive, proud, and on path. What happened is I was warned before I got big-time slimed.

When I think of Slime Attacks, I think of the scene in Ghostbusters when the cute green ghost slimes Bill Murray with green ectoplasm. In a way, psychically it’s the same.

Symptoms of a Slime Attack:

1. You feel a huge drop in mood like I did.

2. You don’t feel creative; This one is super tough. Slime energy is constipating: expression feels unsafe so it goes underground. If you are like me, this is super dangerous. When you are super creative you NEED to create, express, get it out of you. It’s like breathing. What isn’t allowed to come out will find a way through headaches, illness and anger fits, and depression. Where you feel proud, excited, good about yourself, all of that will be squeezed out of your body with the presence of slime.

3. You feel shame. Oh, this is an awful, awful feeling. You feel down about you in some way. Slime attacks target you with shame and go for your sore spots. Yuck! You begin to feel something is very wrong with you and you are BAD or wrong in some way. Unless you just killed a room filled with people, or abused an animal should you ever feel this way or have it thrown at you. Most folks are doing the best they can, and don’t intentionally try to hurt or take anything away from others unless they are sociopathic and are mean-spirited.

4. You either feel too hungry and want to eat everything in sight, or don’t want to eat at all. That’s a response to the slime energy, and your system is trying to do something with it because it can’t assimilate it. (Exception is eating Walmart’s cherry pie which has some addictive ingredient in it. 🙂 )

5. You feel fear. This is the biggest symptom of slime attacks whether talking to a negative person, or having someone throw their stuff on you, or even watching a news program. You feel the opposite of supported and loved and hopeful for the future. In fact, you go into the mode of “I have to do it all on my own” survival mode that fear likes to put you in.

Okay, you identified that you have been slimed, what do you do?

Super good question. First, de-slime. Sit in meditation and do some kind of de-cord exercise from the source of the slime (I just wrote such a meditation in my Empath Skills class). You have to pull that gook off of you.

Two, realize that it’s seriously not cool for anyone to be mean or harsh and throw stuff on you. That’s not yours to carry.

Three, return back to you and reclaim your positive space. When we are slimed, however it comes, you’ve been intruded upon in your space. I like making a list to prepare myself for anytime I am going to get thrown off like this, which will help me bring me back to a positive, centered place. My list usually includes talking to one of my close friends, spending time with my girl dog-ters, or even be in Nature.

You do need some time to come back after a sliming. Emotionally, as a sensitive, it hurts. I have a vivid memory of high school drama club rehearsels. Carol N., another lead in a play, came over and viciously slimed me out of nowhere with comments like “You think you are all that…” etc. It was a bizarre moment because I never said much to her before this. I even worked pretty hard at not having any kind of an attitude. I was devastated, and clutched at my best friend at the time, and started to burst into tears, which was odd for me, because I never cried. She was clearly dumping her stuff on me, discharging her anger and upset and whatever else so she’d feel better. I don’t know if she did, but I stood in amazement that anyone could just be so out and out mean to someone. The tears were for the hurt but also from my confusion. I wasn’t used to it. If she had a problem with me, I much rather she had sat me down and talked to me about her feelings. I would have honestly listened and tried to understand.

Happy de-sliming, my friends. I am off to spend time with my dog-ters, be in Nature, and talk to close friends. 🙂