Author: designingfairy

I'm Ronni, a designing fairy living among the humans! I'm a writer, illustrator, designer, and animal communicator/medium who loves to share and teach what I've learned in a fun way, whether it's providing tools in my Help! I'm Sensitive series for the sensitive folk, Healing Fairy Alphabet Deck for connecting to your intuition through Nature, the Idea Emporium for thinking like a designer to get out of boxes, or teaching in a classroom lessons I created, I hope my creations help make life more fun and easier. I like to help my fellow sensitives!
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A simple reminder for today

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Ask the question, what IS working in my life right now?

Flower essences for sensitive

Depression and the Sensitive

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Sensitive folk are prone to depression. Many times the emotion that registers as “depression” is a conglomerate of all the negative cast-offs from everyone else! As empaths and sensitives, we can reach out too much, be too compassionate and open, and next thing you know, you are carrying around other folks’ stuff. (This can even happen from watching the news or soap operas!) You will know you are doing this when the mood hits you like a brick. One minute you are feeling fine and the next you wonder why we don’t all jump off the roof. It will be that sudden. And the depression will feel like a cloud or a veil covering you that you can’t shake off. Once you notice this, you can get under from the cloud of others’ doom. Try:

  • clearing it out! In my classes, I recommend doing some sort of exercise, taking a bath, or using certain flower essences to clear out gently.
  • go sit in Nature and ground it all out
  • smudge with a smudge stick the hell out of yourself; if it isn’t yours, you will notice a change right away.

To learn more tools for the Sensitive, take my online Care of the Sensitive class starting up again this month. Go here to sign up.

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Raising Money for the Foxy fund

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Our little Foxy girl has been going through a lot. She had a back injury from her arthritis which led to a bladder issue, which led to stomach irritation/ulcers from the meds she was on and now kidney failure. To keep her up and going we need to give her sub fluids and pills. She is very stubborn and is fighting us with meds, etc., working on her healing and insisting on walking around herself and keeping on her schedule. The spirit is strong. I want to do whatever I can for her if she is still in fighting mode.

In the past few weeks, I have been given the opportunity to face my fears and the blocks that have been in my way for so long. I think Foxy is helping me heal so much and the rest of our family. The vets we’ve encountered have mirrored the childhood voices of withholding and not listening. I see that now. And among the fears from everyone, there’s been the voice of hope, the voice of Angels, the voice of Foxy.

So, to help Foxy through this crisis in whatever way she needs I am selling my For The love of Dog books. As an aside, what was on schedule anyway, we will be re-starting many of the Fairy school online classes this month check it out here. I am not offering readings now; I am not in a place to do so.

For fund go to my Designing Fairy post here. I’ve helped so many animals, now my animal needs the help too.

empaths · healing · Intuition · new thinking · spiritual lessons

Psychic vs. scientist

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scientistI am slowly learning:

  • I question myself when around someone who is more of a “scientist” and is unbelieving. One of Foxy’s vets looks at me like I am crazy when I tell her what Foxy is feeling or what I “get”. She took xrays of Foxy’s back and showed places where she had problems. She said, “She may or may not have any pain.” I said, “Yes, she has pain. I told you that. Several times. In those exact places.” She just ignored me. The woman only looks at the numbers and doesn’t seem to have the intuition or feeling to see what is happening. Being an empathic/intuitive person, I can’t even understand this. I was furious she would question my abilities or expertise of ten years when I don’t hers. It’s out and out disrespectful! And worse, around that energy,  I begin to question myself.
  • Perhaps, she is mirroring my own doubts. My Guides had given me advice about Foxy’s health I questioned because I didn’t see results in front of me. I had to act on blind faith and I haven’t been able to do that. Perhaps I too, am the scientist.
  • Trusting even though situations may look bad or hopeless: I remember when we were selling our house a few years back when the market just started to go downhill. At the time, I was getting advice from our departed dog of all things. Talk about faith. But, I wholeheartedly trusted  Lucy and I felt her spirit, and heard her. Lucy said we’d find that buyer and said when- March. There was a bit of a snag. A realtor came in March bringing an interested client and the client fell through–couldn’t get financing! We were then approached by a shady couple to buy our house cheaply. Was this the buyer? This couple felt so horrible, I had a migraine after talking to them. We decided to go with faith, said no, and decided to wait it out. Glad we did. Only two days later, that nice realtor came by again with our buyer. That buyer who picked out our house from a huge list of houses unseen and said, “That one.” What if I hadn’t trusted? I’d have missed the miracle.
  • We do need that balance: science balanced with intuition. If I treated Foxy for her kidneys with just faith, I don’t know if I’d see results. We still need the medications for support and the fluids. There is a role for each. I know if I had bacterial pneumonia I sure as hell would want some antibiotics and not just hands-on-healing to wipe it out.  I’d need both. Getting information that is happening is needed from the animals and Guides and then the vet/doctor can come in and do support. We can use natural support–plants, etc., but we still need that. I guess, it’s all balance.
  • We are not just test results. You need the full story on all levels what is occuring to a person or animal. Too unbalanced a view doesn’t give the whole picture.
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A big thank you…

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I wanted to wish you a Happy Holiday and give a great big thank you.

Thank you for supporting my biz throughout the year for allowing me to help you. For future students, I look forward to bringing you knowledge and tools to support you.

It’s been a crazy year of many changes for most of us and it does sound like equally crazy advice to slow down and count your blessings. But through all the darkness we’ve experienced and seen there is always the light peeking through–whether through the kindness of good friends, a loving hand reaching out to us when we need it the most, or an unexpected gift. For that I am personally most grateful. When I look back at the year and make a list (I’m visual and need to see it), I can see how many times I WAS taken care of and how many mini miracles there have been along the way to keep me staying afloat. I’m sure (and I do hope) this is true for you too.

Like you, my business is morphing and changing and I am sure will see many changes in the future. In that future, I hope to focus on creating much more as I explore sharing through video, classes, and publishing. I am learning so much more in the areas of balancing sensitivity, alternative vibrational & nature healing with the Angels & Fairies, and other- worldly & advanced animal communication that I look forward to sharing with you next year. Thanks to you I am able to devote my energy to doing what I love.

I’d love to hear from you. Let me know what you have benefitted from the most and what you want to see more of.  Just stop by and visit my contact page. (from my holiday newsletter)

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Changes and watching shows

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It’s been a bit crazy at our house and I’m tired. Foxy has had trouble with her arthritis due to the cold we aren’t used to here in Arizona, an our newly teen daughter has had her tribulations. The economy is still a mess so many friends and family members are cutting back this season. It’s been a little difficult to not get pulled down into the sad and yucky feelings mode. So, I turn to my guidance and what I hear is to load up in what does feel good and happy. For me, that’s reading books and watching good movies and tv shows. Here are a few that I’ve enjoyed lately.

  1. Loving the book The Answer is Simple…by Sonia Choquette. Sonia is one of my favorite psychic teachers. She is always upbeat, filled with light, and very down-to-earth.
  2. Dead Like Me is one funny tv series about death and crossing over souls. It’s all dry humor and visual slapstick. Heavy on the language (sounds like me driving).
  3. The Ghost Whisperer — I’m watching season 3 on dvd. It’s a little dark this season and scary. Mel almost dies a few times herself and that’s only the first three shows. But, it is entertaining, and I love the topic.
  4. Comedy! Over at the Hall house we love The Daily Show, 30 Rock, and The Office. Great for elevating the mood.
  5. And, of course, we are reading For The Love of Dog. Hee hee.

Well, happy watching and reading.

Earth energies

Big shift last night

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A little heads up: last night and the last few days has been a big shift for many of us. You may feel yourself expanding more, feeling flighty and floaty and more psychic. Anyone experiencing this? Our dogs and cats are feeling it too and may be a bit agitated.

empaths · healing · Intuition · psychic tips

Headaches and Psychics

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Yesterday I had the worst headache. I was able to get rid of it by taking a nap and a dose of Tylenol, but I had a doozy of a time figuring it out what caused it until I had some time to do some healing on my head. Here’s reasons why if you are psychic or sensitive, you may have a headache:

  • 1. You’re tired. This was the simplest reason for me. I needed to rest.
  • 2. Hormones shifting. That’s for you ladies out there. And even vibrations are shifting (a whole other topic).
  • 3. My head will ache in my psychic spot if there’s negativity around me in some form.
  • 4. Sometimes your head aches when there’s a spirit around of a lower or different vibration. I’ve been to “haunted” places and boy, it felt like my head would come off in some.
  • 5. Stuck emotions–your own. I was upset yesterday and tried to hold it all in. Boy, can you get a doozy of a headache holding back the stream.
  • 6. Stuck emotions–others. If you are empathic, you can take on others’ stuck emotions–the ones they aren’t expressing–and carry it. Ouch. Important to differentiate if it is yours or not. Ask that whatever isn’t yours leaves, and if you feel better, you have evidence.
  • 7. For you hypochondriacs–brain tumor. Just don’t go there.  If it’s really bad headache, we’re talking huge, then go there.
  • 8. Too much energy in the head–this happens to me often. Best way to take care of this? Ground it out somehow. Go do yoga, hold your feet, walk, take a flower essence, and get out of your head. Doing more head work, or worrying more, makes it worse.
  • 9. And last but not least, what did you eat? I had sugar on low blood sugar. Whoops. Ouch. But it tasted really good.

So there you have it. The good thing about being a blogger and a teacher, is that even having a headache is good source material.

Animal Communication · Animals · art · healing art · new thinking

Buy For The Love of Dog

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Check out my preview video for my children’s book for the “new” kids:  For The Love of Dog, then order a copy!

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Holiday Specials!

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Over at my website, we’re offering specials on select flower essences, Ronni’s Potions. Click here. We are also offering sign-ups for two new classes: Psychic Skills and Intuition Development, and Animal Mediumship. Our popular Care of the Sensitive class has been updated with more empathic tip and of course, there’s Animal Communication and Fairy Healing, too. Click here to sign up. Now is the time to sign up–great deals on classes if you sign up now and start later in January! And for holiday gifts, I offer my book, For The Love of Dog and my popular Dogbunny Zine! Hop on over…