Author: designingfairy

I'm Ronni, a designing fairy living among the humans! I'm a writer, illustrator, designer, and animal communicator/medium who loves to share and teach what I've learned in a fun way, whether it's providing tools in my Help! I'm Sensitive series for the sensitive folk, Healing Fairy Alphabet Deck for connecting to your intuition through Nature, the Idea Emporium for thinking like a designer to get out of boxes, or teaching in a classroom lessons I created, I hope my creations help make life more fun and easier. I like to help my fellow sensitives!
Earth energies · healing · new thinking · spiritual lessons

555 and the Soltice Energies

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The clock has been flashing “555.” I know this to mean big changes are happening, so every time my soul and Guides call my attention to the clock, I know to ask for all the changes made to be for the best and be gentle!

In my animal tarot deck, the New Beginnings card — frog — keeps showing itself. Frog is also about clearing/cleansing so new beginnings can take place. (I can attest to that! I’ve emotionally upset and rashing out!)

I have talked with so many students, clients and friends who are all going through the ringer lately, in the past few weeks. I do believe there was a door opened recently for souls to enter and to leave. Anytime there is an influx of big energy coming in, there needs to be energy coming out. We almost lost our 95 year old grandfather around this time and each other, the same time as Farrah, Michael Jackson and Ed McMahon all made their departures. I’ve been hearing the crickets chirp! Crickets: the sign of death and rebirth.

Thanks to my friends who sent me energy reports confirming that June was going to be a time of huge energy shifts and transformations. It feels like we are in excellerated speed. Not just in a cosmic/spiritual perspective, but also on a more practical level–perhaps with all the big changes in the world in economy, the president, downfalls, we are forced to face our own negative stuff and see what needs to be changed–the things we always battled, didn’t like, complained about, that hurt, didn’t work–and finally have to surrender to fixing or changing them. And that  is not a bad thing! It has to change! But for sure, if we battled these things for a long time, it will feel like painful birth pains to get rid of them to birth a new way of living (the birth analogy one good friend has expressed to me and another friend also expressed a few days later!) It’s as if we finally have no choice. Pretty exciting stuff as long as we lean on our support & each other, be brave and strong, trust, and face forward. Happy birthing.

Earth energies

Energy alert: don’t get lost in the bad stuff

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Perhaps it’s just at my house, but the energies seem a bit crazy the last month. Everything is heightened and my empath sense is way up. When I talk to others I hear the same thing! It’s important to not go down with the bad energies that are coming up. Since everyone is dealing with a lot of core issues in their faces, that means a lot of people’s stuff is flying around! Wow, empaths, how do we deal with it?

  • Protection, protection!
  • Watch when we get triggered by other people’s stuff and deal with your own triggers and issues coming up. See what is yours and not yours. (not always easy!) (I thoroughly recommend EMDR training).
  • Clear out often.
  • Reach for your Guides & Angel advice! This has helped me tremendously to see the bigger & higher picture of what is happening around me and not get caught up. This is where being empathic is a good thing. We can figure out what is happening truly underneath so we don’t get lost in the surface issues and feel and go way down!
  • And most importantly, be really mindful of what takes you lower to the more wounded places inside yourself instead of what brings you to your best place. I find when I am triggered by the bad or hard in my life, if I take the lower road, I grab for obsessing on the computer, or, usually more working to feel better. This usually leads to more lower for me and then it’s an endless cycle of keeping me  lower in my pain. The key for me is to grab what helps me feel more higher or good about myself: talking to my Guides, creating, being in Nature,  swimming, walking, playing with my girls, being with my family one-on-one, and more creating! When I create or do these things I feel more ME. A much higher version that reflects back to me all the good things that make up me.

Good luck empaths!

Guardian Angels · healing · spiritual lessons

Guide Message for the Day

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foxymarker“If old stuff and issues are coming up, it means you are ready to heal them.”

Angel Guide communication

Seeing things–angels in disguise

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I see people’s Guides and spirit friends. Not like what you think. Definitely not like the Ghost Whisperer. I see little spirit lights. The lights blink in and out like big fireflies and are usually yellow. Sometimes there are other colors. These are Master Guides and Angels. My students are often surprised when they tell me their secret of seeing lights and I explain what these are.

But talking about seeing some serious weird stuff…I had just done my first session of EMDR, a fabulous technique that uses tones and vibrations to rid yourself of early trauma. The session was amazing (I’ll write a bit about later). Driving back from Cottonwood to home, I was pretty open psychically. Maybe even a bit spacey. I looked back in my rear view window and saw briefly what looked like my own face staring back at me, and a thought came through–it’s like I am turning into a new me. Well, here’s the even weirder part. A SUV passed to the left of me and grabbed my attention. The license plate said, “RONNI 2”! The weirder part is the spelling. I know very little Ronni’s that spell their name that way. And it was another Ronni! Coincidence? Angels working? Vision? My mind translating what it would see in the next moment? You decide.

new thinking · spiritual lessons

I am finding in my business..

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  1. When I keep my focus on what I want and am very clear, I able to manifest and attract good into my life.
  2. When I have business, I usually attract more business. When I panic and focus on lack, there is dead silence.
  3. I do not focus on words of whoa about the economy. I simply do not believe it for myself, and have had the best month financially last month. So, does that make what we experience all about what we believe?
  4. We are all being asked to think out of the box and think creatively with our businesses. I know one man whose business has gone downhill because his biz relied solely on the housing market. He is being asked to be very creative with his thinking now and how can refocus his talents.
  5. When I take the time to have fun and play and really enjoy myself, business increases! This is far from what I have been taught in my life. Play was for after work was completed! How could I take time out to play when I was so responsible? But now I am finding that I want every aspect of my business to be fun and joyful to me.
  6. We are so guided and supported by so many invisible hands and paws.
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Fairy Joy homework

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Nancy Lennon’s Reward List:

Here is my rewards list:

1. Do pedicure with my daughter ( done–now have pretty rainbow toes which make me smile every time I look at them!)

2. Go explore the funky store Cattales

3. Play with my watercolor paints

3. But a new shirt the fairies would like

after death communication · spiritual lessons

Moms and talking to dead people

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Historically this is a tough week for me. My mom crossed over on May 5th fourteen years. It’s a day that comes around with a thud whether I acknowledge it or not. To add insult to injury (boy, I love that expression), dealing with our special needs daughter, we now have frequent family therapy sessions. And in yesterday’s session, it came up that since I am not my daughter’s biological mom, I am not her “real” mom. It was a little insensitive oops-wording from our therapist. Ouch! With Mother’s Day approaching, all these mom injuries are hitting the fan.

Last night, my head ached. This is a sure sign that someone on the other side is trying to communicate. I saw lots of owls–my mom’s favorite creature, before she showed me a weird vision. It my childhood home. We had one fancy room that was the guest living room. Technically, it was highly impractical for a home with kids and a shedding dog. The couch was white with soft fur that you wanted to touch but couldn’t. In this room, there were fancy artifacts, expensive paintings and a glass coffee table. We were not allowed to hang out here, much less sit on the couch. (Although our beagle was known on occasion to sit there when no one was home.) It was the guest living room, after all, for entertaining, but my parents never entertained in it. Ironically then, the room sat like a museum. Out of all visions my Mom could send at this time was a clear picture of the white couch.

How did this vision apply to my mothering or grieving issues?  When I told my pal Wendy this story she blurted out, “Don’t save the best for other people!” This of course, would follow my other posts here of leaving myself last often.

How much have we learned from our Moms about giving to ourselves vs. giving to others? Were there false messages along the way? Was that special couch that I couldn’t touch a symbol that I couldn’t have the special things and treatment? That was for everyone else? Was my daughter now that couch? I could see it, take care of her for the past five years, be mom, but the role of mom was reserved and belonged to others? How long was I taught this odd withholding?

The miraculous part of all of this is Mom, fourteen years later, must have done some soul-searching on the other side to have learned this lesson now, and is now anxious to impart this wisdom to her daughter as she must painfully watch as she repeats her past mistakes.

after death communication · Animal Communication · Animals · dreams

Animals and the Astral Plane

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Before sleep, I usually tell Foxy I want to visit with her in my dreams. I notice this usually happens somewhere between 3am and 8am. The first half of the night I sleep like dreck. 🙂

The visits in my dreams have been consistent. I always go to the same place in the astral world. Foxy is there, living her life, and I can feel and see her with great clarity.

Last night, I spent the entire dream at the same college I always go to in sleep and Foxy followed me around through the whole dream. Again, the dream was quite lucid. What was amazing this time is how strongly I felt her personality and energy. I was with her. And like in this world before she left her body, she stayed by my side.

When I woke I felt glorious!

How do you know if it is a real spirit visit vs. a dream?

  • The dream is so lucid; you are aware you are some place else but dreaming.
  • Your senses are heightened. I could feel Foxy’s fur and her personality.
  • I felt wonderful when I awoke carrying with me the energy of the Other Side.
  • It is consistent: the details, the place you go for the visit.
  • And finally, because I asked for a visit before I went to sleep!

Happy dreaming…

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Empathic Overload

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Recently I taught animal communication at a Rescue farm. Even with grounding and shielding, I still found myself overloaded from the energies of so many animals and people surrounded me halfway through the class, which surprised me. Part of the problem is I becoming more empathic. Ack, I say. Wasn’t I empathic enough? But, for you Sensitives out there, you can probably relate, that the more we are on the development path, the more sensitive we may become. Therefore, more tools are needed.

Because I am such a research girl, I scoured the web today to see what tools other teachers use for times when we are bombarded by too many energies. Here’s what I found:

Yoga Journal has a helpful article on empathic boundaries: http://www.yogajournal.com/health/2094

The Playful Psychic has a lovely online book and mentions when you are feeling scared or on the defensive you may become uncentered and ungrounded. That is most likely what happened. http://www.psipog.net/activepsy/book2.html

Lisa Campion has a great article on grounding and shielding for empaths. She says that empaths, when overloaded, leave their bodies. I can attest to that! We also have very big auras. I think, because of this big aura, I am able to merge with an animal and retrieve such deep information. It’s only a problem when so many animals are trying to talk to me at once or people intrude with their energies. http://www.nexushealing.com/empath.html

Of course, I can read and reread my own online class of tools, and work on a better filter for blocking out more controlling or intrusive energies.

Thank you ladies, for sharing your wisdom on the web.

spiritual lessons

Just Today

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Just today expect support.

Expect to have what you need.

Expect that maybe the opportunities that open up will work out; will take you where you need to go.

Expect more. If something doesn’t fit, expect something better to come along that does.

Even though today may be hard, expect all you need to succeed.