Not everyone is empathic

17 Sep

I had a recent experience with my adopted daughter’s counselor that revealed that not everyone is empathic and I often assume they are. Just because I am, and I live at a level of deep feeling, doesn’t mean everyone is. This can be frustrating. I thought the woman, who is a good counselor for my daughter, understood what I was describing and feeling, but then she said something that revealed, she didn’t get it at all! She thought she did, but she didn’t. She was even very left field. I thought if she had really heard, put all the obvious pieces together, and SEEN, she would have gotten it.

Being empathic can be difficult. We see. We see many layers simultaneously as plain as day. We can often feel what others are feeling and understand the big picture easily. You KNOW your friend isn’t upset about the phone bill, but her lack of communication with her family. You KNOW the really issues, the real problem. Our frustration can be when others can’t return the favor. They had no idea we felt that way. We have to tell them.

I often think that in previous lifetimes I must have been a no-nonsense, all-logic, non-feeling type, and this lifetime is my just reward, or seeing more positively, just my learning experience to create some balance.

3 Responses to “Not everyone is empathic”

  1. Liara Covert September 18, 2008 at 12:28 am #

    Each encounter with another human being is another opportunity to learn. We are reminded human beings live on different energy levels based on their vibrations and level of self-awareness. It is tempting to want to tell people things you sense and wish they already knew. Yet, they are on their journey. You are on yours. Patience is a virtue.

    Your post reminds me about how I relate to Counselor Deanna Troi from Star Trek: TNG. You may enjoy watching show re-run episiodes.


  2. ronnifairy September 18, 2008 at 4:08 pm #

    Deanna Troi was my favorite! Your comment was timely–see my new post on different levels and vibrations.


    • Lynn September 14, 2010 at 7:36 pm #

      I enjoyed your article.

      Being sensitive can be challenging, confusing and disorienting as we learn discernment.


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